Women With Short Hair FAQ’s
We tackle your burning questions regarding women who choose to cut their hair short
My girlfriend wants to cut her hair short, how can I convince her not to without being accused of sexism or misogyny?
A riddle indeed. I am glad you have realized that there is a thin line in women’s minds between “he loves and is attracted to me” and “he’s a sexist pig.” This convinces me you’ll do well in broaching this topic with her. Here are a few pointers that will make your girlfriend ditch her radical ideas fast.
- Tell your girlfriend how much you love her long hair. Also make it a point to comment on what you like about it a lot more. This will make the idea leave her head as fast as it entered.
- Offer to help her take care of it-better yet treat her to a spa day in your home. Paint her nails, rub her down, wash and style her hair. All the while listen to her. Only interject to tell her how pretty she is. You can gently ask her if she is feeling stressed out, and needs more help taking care of herself. Let her know you’ll always be there with a comb and a listening ear.
- Give her the illusion of choice, look her in the eye and tell her it is truly her choice. Nothing she could do would make you love her less as a person. Offer to go through some looks with her that she likes. Point out the longest ones all the while playing with her hair. Later when you make love, tenderly touch it. Pay it a lot of attention. This way she won’t chop it off in rebellion, instead she will decide that she changed her mind. And you can be safe knowing she won’t catch on the reverse psychology,
I started dating this beautiful long haired woman a month ago. All was going really well until I saw her last night. She has cut all her hair off. I have so much invested in her already but I’m not attracted to her anymore? How can I let her down gently? Should I still sleep with her?
This is very complicated and I will try to answer all of your questions as thoroughly as I can. You’re in a sticky spot here, dear reader. You haven’t been dating long enough to expect her to ask you for permission or even mention it casually. I must say it sounds like you didn’t do your due diligence on this girl or openly express your admiration for her long hair. Did you ask her about it? Or were your nerves too high to say anything other than, “you cut your hair.” I am sorry to say she is probably doing a happy dance and she honestly believes that you have passed the first “relationship test.” She is blissfully unaware of how much you hate it because you don’t posses the courage of being honest. Ghosting would be a cowardly move, as you said you’ve invested too much time into her. She deserves an explanation. Just tell her you feel like she changed over night, and you don’t have the same feelings anymore and leave it at that. Sleeping with her could be a minefield you don’t want to navigate especially if she is no longer a romantic prospect. Usually within about 2 weeks of chopping her hair off a woman will become frantic, insecure, and maybe a little crazy. Do you really want to even take the chance of having a short haired stalker?
What hairstyle would attract a Scorpio male?
Dear reader, I am thrilled that you asked me this as we are in cancer season thus water energies are heightened and illuminated right now. Scorpio men are known to be mysterious and sensual. That being said it may be hard to know what he is thinking about your hairstyle. Scorpio males are the most masculine water sign. Ruled by Pluto and Mars one can expect him to be attracted to fiery long locks. But really any long, natural looking wavy hair will work to attract this man. Just let him take the lead.