My girlfriend cut her hair short and I hate it, now what?
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5 ways to cope with this tremendous loss of your girlfriends hair without losing your mind or your relationship, and hopefully no more hair.
My girlfriend cut her hair short and I hate it, now what?
01. Nurture her and her short hair
Tell her you love her (emphasize this fact), but you don’t love some of the choices she has made. Like how she cut her hair short. Bundle it in with some other choices you don’t like so it is not all about her bad short haircut. Maybe even give some of yours and how you changed them.
02. Start a growing program or cut your losses
If you love her get her on a long hair growing program, support her by reminding her to take her vitamins and eat healthy. Buy her a scalp massager maybe even some hair strengthening shampoo with biotin. Hopefully your girlfriend won’t cut her hair again. If it wasn’t that serious to begin with you should cut your losses immediately before she cuts off everything dear to you.
03. Drop some hints
If you are afraid to be direct with her you could hint at what you want. Maybe she will grow her hair out for you since you hate it. Watch movies starring long haired women and comment on their hair. Saying how great they look after they stopped cutting their hair short. Mention to your girlfriend that her short haircut is growing and how pretty she looks the more it grows out. It is important to encourage her short hair to grow.
04. Grow your own for her to copy
Start growing your own hair out, mention how much easier you find it to take care of the longer it gets. She will certainly notice you not getting haircuts, she might even want to help you grow it and in turn your girlfriend might stop cutting her hair short. This bond can build relationships stronger and stop your girlfriend from cutting her hair short.
05. Talk to her
Tell her how it makes you feel that she cut her hair short. Explain that you feel emasculated, disgusted, and sexually confused. Try not to hurt her feelings as I am positive she feels stupid enough as it is with her short cut hair. If you face it head on with her that might give her the support she needs.
Haircuts are a fork in the road
So now you can stop worrying over your girlfriend cutting her hair short and you hating it. Either you can help her recoup her long hair losses or it is a sign from the stars above to go separate ways. If you’re lucky you are reading this before she has ever thought of or brought up cutting her hair short. Hopefully you won’t be like many wondering why their girlfriend cut her hair short and you turn out to hate it.